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How to Deal With a Misogynist? Case Study

Posted on August 10, 2020October 26, 2021 By Mridultulika
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Women are empowering themselves everyday although misogyny is also an undeniable reality. We will try to understand how to deal with the misogynist?

Definition of Misogyny and Misogynist

Misogyny is related to dislike, hatred and prejudice against a women by a person. The person who is engaged with dislike, hatred and prejudice against the women is considered to be a Misogynist.

Psychology of Misogynist

Starting with a quote by Bette Davis

“When a man gives his opinion, he’s a man. When a woman gives her opinion, she’s a bitch.”

Betty Devis

Modern psychology has given the reason of misogyny. It is hard to believe that even the misogynist have no idea about his hatred towards a woman.

Just like a seed, with all possible conditions of growth, becomes a tree likewise misogyny develops into the subconscious mind without any awareness by the person itself.

Psychology says that encounter with an abusive mother, sister or a partner may plant a seed of unconscious hatred for woman. Slowly it develops into the memory area of the brain. Later it affects the decision making and emotional behavior of a person completely

Understand Misogyny with an Example

Education, Knowledge, Leadership qualities, passion and zeal for growth; all become useless when they are related to women. It is most common behavior of Misogynist to stop women from achieving top positions at workplace.

It is only the misogynist that will use all possible strategies to stop a woman from gaining momentum in her career. He feels terrible working under a woman boss.

CASE STUDY

Mr. X is a reputed government official. His wife is also a reputed official in some other organization. They live together as parents of two young boys with a good social reputation. But communication among Mr.X and Mrs X is almost negligible.

Mr. X spend all his life and important childhood days with senior most citizens of the society. He heard stories about social behavior, relationship with family members & potential responsibilities of people to maintain social decorum with strict compliance.

Following are the important ideology of Mr. X

Women deserves respect but not sharing and communication about family affairs.

She can cheat physically and emotionally at anytime and at any age.

If a woman holds an authoritative position at workplace is often professional at home; devoid of any emotion & concern for family members.

This is an example of Misogyny and Mr.X is a Misogynist. We can see that childhood nurturing and thought building process has close impact on the psychology of Mr.X.

How to deal with a Misogynist

Misogyny is a social accepted norm; don’t feel terrible, this is a reality. When a Misogynist doesn’t know his own misogyny, how can we expect others to notice such behavior?

A woman may know about misogynist when someone is intruding her ways for success, bullying her for useless things & insults her whenever opportunity comes his way.

What options woman may have for misogynist?

A woman may fight or argue with such people but this cannot be a permanent and good decision. Believe: never try to do any messy conversation with such people.

Misogyny is a personality trait that developed with time under some specific nurturing and family conditions. It is a full-fledged ideology which cannot be dealt with any argument and fight.

But ideology can change. It may take sometime but few valid and rational experiences by the person itself can trigger a contemplation on own thought process.

A woman must not bother about such people at workplace, at home and or some other place. She should follow her own ways for life. Indeed she can say these little things to a misogynist.

“I know you are not feeling comfortable with my achievements but believe me, i will be happy whenever you will achieve something in your life.”

“You doesn’t want to share anything with me because i am a woman. But i will never let you down if you trust me.”

“Your prejudice and hate for me is the product of your mindset. It has nothing to do with the reality. Give a thought once and let me know if i am wrong.”

Time has changed now. There are less opportunity and plenty of aspirants. Peace & satisfaction in life is missing. People must understand that any psychological prejudice against anyone can lead to more disturbance.

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